He’s handsome, caring, supportive, funny, charming, sensitive, genuine and appreciative. He is reasonable, logical, thoughtful and analyzes the hell out of everything! Much like me! We have so many similarities! Our children, family and friends are most important to us. We love hard. We live simple. We laugh. We talk. We accept our lives as precious gifts.
He IS my fuck yes.
Is everything perfect?? Yes!!!
We have loved and lived and we have learned. We both have pasts, suitcases filled to the top. Some really good shit!! Some not so good shit. Some shit buried so deep we aren’t even aware of yet. Our pasts have made us into the people we are today and thankful for all of it. Works in progress. Living each day trying to be better than we were the day before. Trying to understand a little bit more. Being a little more present in life. We each have kids, we have each felt loss, heartbreak, and pain. We have suffered enough, owned our mistakes and we have each had life changing moments that were needed in order to rebuild ourselves and our lives.
What makes our relationship successful is at the end of each day we are standing in each other’s corners wanting nothing but the best for each other. What makes us healthy is talking it out and allowing each other to feel without consequence. What makes us love is simple — it’s the selfless endless desire to see each other happy.
Are we perfect for everyone? Not a damn chance. We are perfect for each other right now, today and that’s all we need. One day at a time.